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He Needs It More Than We Do

October 10, 2008 By Frugal Babe

When I was a teacher in the Peace Corps in the late 90s, I had a student who was one of my hardest workers, although he usually had pretty average grades.  He was not a stand out student in the typical sense (I had plenty who earned better grades than he did), but he was nearly always in my office (a mud brick room that also served as the school library) after class seeking clarification, and came to every evening study hall that I organized.  After I returned to the US, he stayed in contact with me, and told me that he was pursuing the next level of high school (high school there is a six year program – I taught the first four years).  He would take time off and earn money to pay school fees, and then carry on with another semester.  After that level of school, he went on to a school sort of like a junior college, and is now in his second year of university studies.  This is extremely rare in that part of the world, and I’m ever so proud of his efforts.  Over the last several years, my parents have been funding a portion of his school fees and tuition.  He generally comes up with a chunk of it on his own by working during school breaks, and then my parents kick in the rest.  As he’s progressed in school, the tuition and fees have gone up, although it’s still much less expensive than a degree in the US would cost (his total expenses for this year are about $1600, including room and board, books, fees, and tuition).  He was able to pay about half of it himself.  My parents are paying $600, and my husband and I are contributing $200.  This is the first time we’ve given him money ourselves – usually we just pay the Western Union wire fees to send the money my parents give him.

$200 is still a lot of money to us.  But we’re inspired by my parents’ desire to see this young man through his education (they are not wealthy – just generous).  And giving someone an education is a gift that keeps on giving.  In this student’s case, his tenacity has paid off – very few of his peers even went on to the next level of high school, much less university.

If we didn’t send money to help pay his tuition, we could go out to dinner every week this month.  Or buy a bunch of new clothes at the thrift store by our house.  Or splurge on really fancy food the natural grocery store opening in our neighborhood next month.  But we don’t need to go out to dinner (we prefer our own cooking anyway).  And the clothes we already have are just fine.  And the new store will have lots of bulk rice and beans, which is fine with us.  I’m struck by the reality that most of us in America have far more in the way of material goods than we actually need.  And while $200 is a lot of money for us (as is $600 for my parents), it’s a fortune to a student in Tanzania.  So I will happily include the money from us when I wire my parents’ money next week.  If we have to tighten our budget to do so, that’s ok.

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  1. Frugal Wench says

    October 10, 2008 at 5:28 pm

    We so take education for granted in the first world countries. I have a friend from Nigeria, and he says that the reason that there are so many scammers is because it is the only way they can make money, since most of them have no education. They’ll do whatever the people who run the scams want them to do, because it teaches them to use a computer. Most of them have never used a computer before.

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  2. SavingDiva says

    October 11, 2008 at 6:00 pm

    That is so amazing of you! I’m in awe.

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  3. Geoff K says

    October 14, 2008 at 4:38 pm

    Good on you. While $200 to you, is, as you say, still significant it isn’t huge. Just a few luxuries etc. But to your former student it’s a life changing amount.

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  4. Siebrie says

    June 16, 2010 at 6:01 am

    Do you have a Western Union Card? Every time you send money, you collect points. A certain number of points gives you a free moneytransfer.

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